Category: Pondering Life

Owning it and accepting it…

Owning it and accepting it…

This has been one of those days when I have had moments of being inexplicably angry and unbelievably sad.  I spent most of the morning trying to ignore it and it has gotten me nowhere except throbbing in pain from a stress neck ache.  That’s no good. Owning it… I read a post early last […]

Posted 16 January 2014 by Kim in Pondering Life / 0 Comments
A down day…

A down day…

There is a down side to being reflective.  Memories.  Frustration.  Sadness.  The reminder of how little faith in humanity I have these days.  As much as I don’t want to revisit these things, there is no way to cope and to heal without working through them.  But denying it or ignoring it won’t help.  I […]

Posted 8 January 2014 by Kim in Pondering Life / 0 Comments
Reflecting…

Reflecting…

I have been doing a lot of thinking lately about life and relationships, all kinds of relationships… family and friends.  The last several years have had their ups and downs, often more downs than ups.  I watched The Perks of Being a Wallflower recently and a quote from that really struck me. “We accept the love we think […]

Posted 7 January 2014 by Kim in Pondering Life / 0 Comments
Happy New Year!

Happy New Year!

For the love of 2014 I don’t believe in resolutions.  They are a setup for failure.  I believe in goals.  And I have several… Do what I need to do to get healthier, but not be so hard on myself.  I need to accept my limitations and stop expecting too much of myself. Start devoting […]

Posted 1 January 2014 by Kim in Pondering Life / 0 Comments
2013 in Review

2013 in Review

I honestly don’t want to remember most of 2013.  It was a year of sadness, betrayal, frustration, and heartbreak.  There were moments of happiness, but they were so few and far between. Just about a year ago, I found out that I was unexpectedly pregnant.  And I was filled with fear.  Abject terror.  And that […]

Posted 31 December 2013 by Kim in Pondering Life / 0 Comments